Alright.. NEW update.
I went to autozone, they had a spark plug for me!
I also got gasket material and made another base gasket, doubled the base and now have a single head gasket. Its perfect no piston hitting the head.
I started it up again with the 79 jet, it ran for a little again..didn't idle again.. and it ran with the throttle at 1/4 throttle.
So I guess I need to get a jet thats in the mid 70's and go from there..