^ Seriously, this. Get your act together and you will not be stuck places, you will have control of your life. Don't worry about others until you have your own shit together. No one is going to think better of you, until you do, and take charge of your life. You are too old to be worrying about where you are going to spend the night or how to get somewhere, you need to be able to handle these basic things yourself before you can offer anyone/a group anything.