But it's not, he replied to a post that had nothing to do with him thinking I was talking about him. I wasn't and I've said that fucking repeatedly.
But it's not, he replied to a post that had nothing to do with him thinking I was talking about him. I wasn't and I've said that fucking repeatedly.
> Ashley Saldivar Wrote:
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> Then you don't know thomas very well. I always say, if he doesn't like
> you he just won't talk to you. You know he likes you when he makes
> stupid jokes. You just can't see that. You take the jokes as harsh and
> mean, but he was just fucking with you.
I've played around before with his jokes, sometimes they can be a bit abrasive. When I don't know someone too well I can be a bit sensitive to things said and done that I perceive as being mean when they aren't the intention. When I know someone more obviously it'll bother me less. I do have social problems, and I was just diagnosed with Aspergers officially weeks ago, and that has a big part to do with it and my interactions with others.
I always mess around and joke with people and it can seem like I'm being a dick. but as stated above if I didn't like the person I wouldn't talk to them at all. There is truth to what she is saying.
Ok, I just wasn't cool with some of the things that were said towards me that didn't really seem to be joking. Maybe I do need to lighten up a bit, and think about how that makes me look to others when I have to be serious all the time, just we all have things that we're cool with and not. It wasn't just them either, it was other people that did the same thing and it made me feel a lot worse.
> Rand Jacobson Wrote:
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> Can y'all hash this shit out privately? Nobody here gives a fuck about
> this or anyone involved. Block relevant numbers and relevant facebook
> accounts and move the fuck on.
Fuck this guy, get the fuck outta here with your "keep your drama to yourself"
Look, just because you don't wanna watch oprah it doesnt mean she's not some of the most popular entertainment in history and easily one of the most badass powerful and influential women ever. no go fuck off, im feisty and mad and all riled up from the electricity in this room
> Brandon Love Wrote:
>Stop playing this stupid game and grow the fuck
> up. This is pathetic.
lol I'm happy to have this as a response to the next thread you'll post in the general in 4 months
> Rand Jacobson Wrote:
> -------------------------------------------------------
> Can y'all hash this shit out privately? Nobody here gives a fuck about
> this or anyone involved. Block relevant numbers and relevant facebook
> accounts and move the fuck on.
So MUCH this, this thread highlights everything awful about the internet, talk to whomever in person about it or blow them off, all this is just high school level useless drama, grow the fuck up!
I agree that the internet is probably the worst place for this sort of communication.
And, I wouldn’t want to have a whole pile of posts, from multiple users, along this same line.
But, Brandon is our guy. He had a kerfuffle with some other moped folks and aired all that dirty laundry.
We literally have one (1) person challenging our ability to exercise compassion, patience and understanding.
It is way easier online than in person. I have had friends, that shared some of his behavior patterns. In real life, you have real obligations to those people. Not everyone is perfect, easy to get along with, dare I say... Likeable?
But, we are all on this planet together. I for one choose love and cooperation over disdain and isolation.
How can we ever succeed with the changes needed in our BIG social problems when we can’t even form a healthy perspective toward one guy that has some issues and doesn’t always deal with them ideally?
Not trying to shame anyone. Just a reminder that we need more love to make the world a better place and less judgement/exclusion.
all these folks scoping the good dramas and pretending you dont wanna watch...
Airing personal issues online is like taking a shit in a public place like a store aisle....it's gross, no one not involved wants or needs to be exposed to it.
I’ll go back, reluctantly, to my law enforcement training. The good stuff.
They say: “You can’t pick your victims.”
What that was supposed to get across was: nobody is perfect. Some people are really flawed. Just because someone does everything wrong and may be nearly intolerable doesn’t mean they don’t have rights, deserve respect, deserve an advocate.
Say someone is shitting in a store aisle. It’s wrong. It is completely unacceptable behavior. But does that person deserve to be treated as less than human? I know some will quickly say yes. Remember, that everyone has a story and a past.
In the words of folky Joan Baez: “There, but for fortune, go you or I.”
Most cases, the person shitting in a store aisle doesn’t want to be living that life. They just don’t know how to break the cycle and get better. And they have burned every bridge and exhausted every positive person in their life.
That’s were the professionals come into play.
A support network is helpful to getting aisle shitters back on the straight and narrow. Brandon doesn’t seem to be that far gone. It is an easy matter to speak the truth, but be clear that the “truth” we speak comes from a place of unconditional love for others and genuine concern.
It is a challenge to me to fix bad situations. This appears to be easy. Not knowing the exact details makes it a little harder. But god damn, nobody got killed, raped, stolen from, coerced or extorted. Just seems like hurt feelings and ordinary bad behavior.
Like, my kids go through this stuff weekly, it isn’t impossible to think that there could be an outcome from all this mess which everyone feels good about.
> Born to be WillD Wrote:
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> all these folks scoping the good dramas and pretending you dont wanna
> watch...
What'd I miss?
Maybe this will help you.
Think that needs to be directed towards others than me.
> Brandon Love Wrote:
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> Uh, he said numerous times about how he was going to get my ass kicked.
First page...talking about Thomas....
Obviously this is all public now.
You need to find a way to move on. You probably have to come to the relaxation that ya probably said something otherwise your parents would not have contacted them directly...
It shows a lot of gusto for Thomas and Ashley to come on here and even talk to you in PUbLiC about all of this.
...seriously from an outsiders perspective and genuine concern, you need to get some help dude. Whatever that may need be.
Or don't be a dick to someone, then continue to be a dick after I've said twice I wasn't cool with it along with others. I have no idea how or why this is so hard to understand unless all of the 2-stroke has given everyone brain damage.
Again, I didn't say shit about Thomas to them, other than a couple of times in the past. Nothing was said, that's why I'm still kind of pissed about them doing that and getting in my business when I just mentioned in passing that someone was fucking with me on another forum and it might be someone from the moped community. I've already explained this more than enough times. Do you know how fucking embarrassed I am having my parents getting involved in this? I just wanted to know who it was, and what their fucking problem was, and why they're coming at me like that out of nowhere. I even knew I wouldn't get an answer but I thought it wouldn't hurt to try. Maybe it's just I react, and get really defensive because I've dealt with people trying to shit on my name a lot too.
All I've wanted to do is ride mopeds and hang out without the stupid shit that always starts up.
Brandon>>>>YOU are the one that always starts it just like this thread
This wasn't about anyone in particular, I just wanted someone to fess up and I wanted to know what was going on and why I was seeing shit about me and my relationship with mopeds on a thread I go to vent in. It's like what was the intention there? To piss me off? Make me feel like shit? Make me bring it here? Seems like they got what they wanted and I have no idea who to be pissed at.
If you're going to talk big shit, say it here or to my face. Don't hide on an anonymous forum.
You don’t even ride! Why are you even on here bruh?
Wow... this was a fun read. How old is this "kid"?
> Eric Bennett Wrote:
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> You don’t even ride! Why are you even on here bruh?
For the last year and a half, yeah.
> Ken Thomas Wrote:
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> Wow... this was a fun read. How old is this "kid"?
30, and what does that have to do with anything?
By the time I was 30, I had a wife and three kids. I still have the kids...lol.
Doesn't seem like that's going to happen anytime soon.
You never know. Two years ago, my youngest son (27) didn't have a significant other and lived with my ex-wife. Two years later, he now he has a good job, a wife, baby and they just bought their first house (in RVA). It could happen.
> Papa _ Wrote:
> -------------------------------------------------------
> I agree that the internet is probably the worst place for this sort of
> communication.
>
> And, I wouldn’t want to have a whole pile of posts, from multiple users,
> along this same line.
>
> But, Brandon is our guy. He had a kerfuffle with some other moped folks
> and aired all that dirty laundry.
>
> We literally have one (1) person challenging our ability to exercise
> compassion, patience and understanding.
>
> It is way easier online than in person. I have had friends, that shared
> some of his behavior patterns. In real life, you have real obligations
> to those people. Not everyone is perfect, easy to get along with, dare I
> say... Likeable?
>
> But, we are all on this planet together. I for one choose love and
> cooperation over disdain and isolation.
>
> How can we ever succeed with the changes needed in our BIG social
> problems when we can’t even form a healthy perspective toward one guy
> that has some issues and doesn’t always deal with them ideally?
>
> Not trying to shame anyone. Just a reminder that we need more love to
> make the world a better place and less judgement/exclusion.
"It's way easier online than in person"=total cop-out, NOTHING worth doing is easy, life is HARD sometimes, I don't know who is going around telling people life is easy, it's not, take some time to accept that. If it's super important to you to get along with someone you feel has wronged you, hash it out with THEM, not the internet, if it's not important, blow them off, forever and mean it. If you have mental health conditions get professional help, and follow their recommendations, again HARD, but you want to feel better right? Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and over again expecting different results. I do have sympathy for people with problems, but none at all for those who will not take the steps to begin helping themselves, YOU have to want it, or all the good intentions of others and professional guidance will do you zero good. If you have been diagnosed with a mental health issue, go to a doctor, not the damn internet, wtf do we know? Doctors know how to treat you. There are many of them so try a few to find one that works for you. There is also a reason your medical records are PRIVATE. Maybe you are doing these things, but no one would know it, as it is nearly impossible to get the full context of every situation of your life perfectly expressed online, (thank the god of your choice), another reason that interpersonal differences need to be worked out between the parties involved only. I wish you luck, but you have a LOT of work to do, and a lot to learn about how the world works, it's doable, but it is going to take a concerted effort on your part, and it will NOT happen overnight.
Or didn't this start because I accidently caught the dude trying to fuck his wife on a married couple's bed 8-9 years ago because I was given permission to take a piss in someone's personal bathroom when people were fucking in the main bathroom? Then the dude got punched in the face by that Hell's Satan Micheal, and then was made to get out of the house, came back in to go after me, and was grabbed by his throat and slammed into the wall by two of the Orphans? Then held a grudge against me for the wrong that he did, and the repercussions of his actions like it were my fault. I was just trying to take a piss. The dude's eyes got like O_O when he was slammed against that wall lmao. He pop's off to me, but no one else, wonder why that is? Because they aren't on the autisim spectrum along with having a bone disease?
So there you go everyone, that's where all of this shit started. (edited)
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